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Collecting: Ornate Wooden Chair

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The coin collector that is sharing his collection with me also collects other unique items.  He has a chair that was given to him years ago from a friend.  He does not know the history of this chair but he appreciates the beauty and uniqueness of it.  I quickly looked around the web for photos of similar chairs.  I didn’t find anything exactly like his chair but I did find chairs that looked similar that were Japanese wooden chairs from the Meiji period.  I honestly don’t know if this chair belongs under that classification or not but this is a gorgeous, unique chair.


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Coin Collecting: Part Two

The senior citizen who shared his coin collection with me has quite a few one dollar coins.  I took a photo of six of them showing six different designs on the back.

One dollar coins, back side

United States One Dollar Coins, Front Side


The coins are all United States one dollar coins.  During my conversation with the Iowa coin collector, I didn’t take good notes about the coins themselves as I was most interested in the history of the man’s interest in coin collecting.

But when I was back at Elder Concern’s office looking at the photos of the coins, I became interested in the coins themselves.  We have an intern this year from Drake University, Katie, and she looked up the coins on Wikipedia and other sites for me.  Thus I will try to paraphrase her research using Wikipedia as the basis for my information.  As I am not a coin expert and neither is Kattie, we do not know if the information that we found was 100% accurate.  If one is interested in learning more about these coins, I would suggest talking with your local public librarian to ask about “official” sources of information on coins.

Thus as far as I know, the coins on the top row are referred to Eisenhower Dollars.  The Eisenhower Dollar on the left is called the 1976 Bicentennial Commemorative Design and is designed by Dennis R. Williams.  Mr. Williams was 21 years of age at the time and the youngest person to ever design a US coin.  The design had been created for a college art class and he submitted it for the US Mint competition in the early 1970’s.  The Eisenhower Dollar on the right has a back side to commemorate the Apollo 11 moon landing and was designed by Frank Gasparro.

The dollar coins in the middle row are called Morgan Dollars.  These were composed of 90% silver and 10% copper and “were struck between 1878 and 1904 with a final minting in 1921 ” according to Wikipedia.  The designer was George T. Morgan.

The last row contains dollars called Peace Dollars.  It is also made of 90% silver and 10% copper.  It was designed by Anthony De Francisci to commemorate the Allied signing of the peace treaty with Germany and Austria after WWI.  They were minted between 1922 and 1928 and again between 1934 and 1936.  Minting was halted between 1928 and 1934 due to The Great Depression.

I will post more photos of this senior citizen’s coin collection in the coming days.


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Coin Collecting Hobby: Part One

As mentioned in the last post, a Michigan-raised Iowa senior citizen was kind enough to show me his coin collection.  I am a poor photographer and my photos don’t do his collection justice but here are two photos that I took while visiting him and discussing the hobby of coin collecting:

Buffalo Nickel

Buffalo Nickels

These coins appear to be “a copper-nickel five cent piece that was struck by the United States Mint from 1913 to 1938.  It was designed by sculptor James Earle Fraser.” according to a Wikipedia entry.



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Hobbies are important to our mental health throughout our lifetime.

In this section we will feature senior citizens and their hobbies.

Some people pursue new interests and activities when they have more time once they have retired from their full-time job.

Some people’s hobbies have been a part of their life throughout their lifespan and they continue to enjoy them after the age of 60.

The first senior citizen and his hobbies fall into the latter situation.  He is a collector that has been collecting all of his life.  Coin collecting is something that he started when he was young and continues to enjoy even now, many decades later.



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Toning the Sweep

Toning the Sweep by Angela Johnson

When I picked up this short novel, I didn’t realize it was a book for “young readers.”  If I hadn’t seen the Scholastic Book label as I began to write this blog piece, I wouldn’t have known.  Read it as a gentle, thoughtful story life transitions and impending grief for all ages.

Emily and her mother return to the desert Southwest to close up Grandmama Ola’s house and bring her to Ohio for her final months.  The chapters read like poems to soft desert breezes and cherished family ties.  Odes to friends, family, and connections.  Harmonizing with nature.  Bits of family history in attics and suitcases.  Shared experiences and memories.  All written with the pace of desert life.

I won’t admit how far I was into the book before I realized the characters were African-American.  To me this was about the love and connections within any extended family.  Many hands make light work as they share joy, laugh, and carry on the continuity of life.


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Coach Broyles’ Playbook for Alzheimer’s Caregivers: A Practical Tips Guide Pocket Reference of Tips and Strategies

By Frank Broyles, University of Arkansas, Razorback Athletic Director Emeritus

If you are in the market to understand how to care for someone with Alzheimer’s Disease, this might just be the only book you need.  It is ninety-one pages, wire bound, of plain-spoken direct instructions.  “Do this.”  “Don’t do that.”  In my experience he covers the gamut of caregiving tasks and does it well.  The enclosed pamphlet of Tips and Strategies is a gem of fast reminders.

There are stacks of books on Alzheimer’s disease for every reader out there.  Books full of statistics, understandings of the disease itself, causes, treatments, advancements in science, theories, various common and uncommon behaviors, ad infinitum.  They each serve the reader well.  Broyles’ Playbook is a distillation of just what a caregiver needs to know in order to provide good care.  Nothing more.

As social workers, we often notice that caregivers either “get it” or they don’t.  Frequently, it doesn’t even matter what type of dementia a patient may have; they simply need to be cared for by someone who “gets it.”  Broyles gets it and passes this knowledge on.  This is a very useful resource.

Ah, but I have to be honest and report some comments on the downside.  The booklet itself has some of the worst print I have ever tried to read.  Much of the text is in grey rather than black and is hard on the eyeballs.  The author may know Alzheimers but he doesn’t know vision-impairment.  And the wire binding is just a scooch too tight making the pages hard to turn.

Also, under the category of “political correctness,” Broyles’ frequent mention of support from “church” sticks out to me as slightly offensive.  I am sure he intended to include support from synagogues, temples, and other places of worship and spirituality.  Trouble is he only said “church.”  It seemed either quaintly old-fashioned or accidentally rude.

Boyles also assumed the caregiver, once the patient had moved to facility care, would visit “daily.”  This is an assumption loaded with guilt.  Many people expect close family to visit nursing home patients daily.  It might be a great thing.  Or it might be awful.  My own parents suffered from this assumption.  My mother (and I) had tended my father at home for several years before he had to go to facility care.  My mother, who did not drive anymore, tried to visit my dad daily.  It was difficult getting her there in all sorts of weather.  More tragically, my father did not want to see her daily.  Although my father was an excellent husband, in his dementia, he wanted to flirt with his nurses and aides.  He wanted to have chocolate pudding on his chin.  He definitely did not want his wife wiping his face and telling him to leave the nurses alone.  Visits were challenging for both of them and my mother kept insisting since she felt daily visits were expected of her.  My mother felt deep guilt if she skipped a day.  My father had no particular sense of time so he wasn’t missing her absence.

Boyles wrote this book after years of caregiving for his wife.  There was one issue he did not mention which would be helpful.  It has been my experience that one of the hardest parts of caregiving for a mentally impaired spouse is giving up the spouse as consultant in daily life.  The urge to ask one’s spouse’s opinion on any number of things is a huge barrier to “getting” dementia care.  This book instructs the caregiver to just make the decision for the spouse, or at least reduce the choices to two fully-formed options.  It is far easier for some couples than for others.  We had one Alzheimer’s wife bean her husband with a frying pan when he made a meal decision she didn’t like.  We have seen the caregiving spouse drive his wife to tears trying to get her to decide if he should sell her car.  He stated he had never, nor would he ever, make such a big decision without her input.  Of course, if Boyles had gotten into such variations, his booklet wouldn’t be the simple guide it is.

Kudos, Coach Boyles!

Available at http://www.alz.org and Broylesfoundation.com